Men often ask how to convince their partner to have more sex. And if it isn't more sex, it's more creative sex. More often than not, guys aregoing about it all wrong. The nudge, the sudden surprise move, the begging, the insistence ... these tactics don't work. Obviously. What does? Giving. You get what you give fellas!
Let her sleep
Getting enough rest energises her libido. If she’s tired she isn’t going to get in the mood. So, do whatever it takes to give her more rest. It will pay you long term dividends in bed if she sees you helping her get some down time (in and out of the bedroom). Don’t wake her up in the middle of the night for some 3am nookie when you know she’s tired. Leave her be and the next time will more likely be a yes than a no.
Pleasure her first, and a lot
Be generous as a lover! Not only will she think you are sexier, but she is more likely to orgasm during intercourse if she has already climaxed during foreplay. The way a woman’s sexual response works is more more more! The more orgasms she has, the more she desires. The more sex she has, the more she desires. So if you want more, you need to give her more of what she likes first.
Spend time on foreplay – don’t rush it!
Women get off, literally, on sensual and sexual touch, and it releases a range of feel-good biochemicals she is really sensitive to. So when you think you've done enough foreplay, don't stop: do some more still. Like an amazing, mind blowing massage can be, if you're generous with foreplay, she'll remember that and want it again, and again ... and you, again and again.
Praise
Tell her how much she turns you on during sex, not just beforehand to get sex. Heap on the compliments, and positively talk about how beautiful and sexy she is. Be thoughtful, delight in her, and tell her how much you desire her. Do it a lot and watch how she responds to you.
Ask her what she wants
Being generous in bed doesn’t only mean just taking charge and doing lots of what you like, and lots of what you think she likes. Ask her – often – what she wants. Listen to her needs and respect them. If you hear her, and prioritise her, she will do the same for you. Win-win!
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